Do You Rescue, Fix and Save?

If “It’s just easier to do it myself” is common when you think about holding someone accountable you are wearing a neon sign that reads — “UNDER PERFORMERS WELCOME HERE”. Yep, that’s right, you are very likely attracting what you most complain about when you rescue, fix and save.

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Help! I Need Accountability Or Maybe…Not

The CEO of an organization had asked me to come speak to his Board about accountability and how, as a value, accountability plays a role in lowering stress, increasing productivity and ensuring job satisfaction for employees. I was to be the featured speaker of the Board’s retreat. The night before the main session, the Board…

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Do You Believe This?

You have no doubt heard the term “button pushing”. Has anyone ever pushed your button? Button pushing is pretty common in personal relationships. Over time, we may learn exactly how to push our spouse’s button and act all innocent when they react. It is a strange kind of power over someone when it works.

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